The true definition of confidence is: having or showing assurance and self-reliance. How many of us have self-assurance and how long did it take to get it, and was it a struggle to get to that point? Did you have confidence at birth, did confidence come overnight? Whichever, way you got your confidence doesn’t matter, what matters is how are you going to make your confidence work for you? It’s not hard and if you don’t have confidence you will find it in this article. Do you have what it takes to be thirty and flirty? My guess is yes if you’re reading this article.
Having confidence in oneself is a must; I’m not talking about the confidence where you have to convince yourself in order to believe it. I’m talking about award winning confidence when you walk into a room and you take a look around and you leave with what you came there for that’s confidence. As we get older and still single we lose that ability to be confident in oneself. However, in your thirties you should take back that flirty confidence and not worry about anything else. It’s all about that positive attitude, and the way you carry yourself. Just because you are a little bit older doesn’t mean that you lost your way, you just need to change your style so it can get you to where you want to be.
Just in case you have lost a step or two, I thought this helpful guide will bring you back to your sexy confidence. Now this is just a guide if you don’t wear this confidence with pride you will lose and that’s something you don’t want to do. If you are like me you don’t want to lose and you have no reason to lose if you’re confident enough. Knowing this is half the battle when you want to flirt with confidence by your side. The next time you go out use this guide with confidence and watch yourself get the one thing you came there for. As well as watch all the other people wonder how you walk out getting the one thing they wanted and they were not confident to get.
First and for most let’s talk attitude. Attitude is the key to winning the game. Being positive helps you know exactly where you are going and who you are. That smile on your face placing all odd in your favor even when you don’t feel like smiling. Trusting that you have better qualities’ than anyone else out there that’s the key to winning the game. That attitude places that confidence in your behavior. Having that attitude each and every time you wake up is a must.
Appearance matter because if you’re in clothes that you’re not happy about it won’t make you feel all that confident. Always dress your best when you go out. Dress for you and what makes you happy. Not that trampy skirt but the one just short enough to get that look of sexiness within, just by showing some skin. Skin is in but too much just makes you look like a harlot. Furthermore, putting on that sexy shirt you own just out of your closet the one that shows just enough cleavage but not enough to make all the other girls look at you like you are easy for the night. Feeling sexy is the way to go to keep the confidence going. Your hair and makeup done just right wow you are impress with how you look. It’s not easy but it sure will makes you feel confident when you go out.
Ready for the town where should you go with all your confident sexiness. You pick that one new spot that you been hearing about. So you can try out all your sexy flintiness’. You walk into that club with a smile and all odds are in your favor. I was once told “I could work a room.” I never know what that meant until I understood the gift I had, which was I could at least get the attention of everybody in that room through my smile. My smile is warm and inviting and makes you feel at ease. Which makes you an approachable individual and softens all the hard qualities in you isn’t easy at times but makes this one of the times where easy does it.
You are looking sexy and feeling sexy and at the biggest hot spot you could find. Flirting will come natural because it’s the best way to break the ice with a person. It’s just all around fun way to meet perhaps the man of your dreams. But just in case you are a newbie here are some helpful hints. Yes, you want to make eye contact with someone looking at you but don’t stare be the one to look away first. It keeps him interested in you. Once you have his interest he will come over and ask can I set down. Let him but also, don’t be too eager for him to take that seat next to you.
Once he is their next to you be yourself, real and confident. Make your eye contact; laugh at the most corniest jokes because you will hear a lot. Be warm and open as you should be because you are being notice. If you can touch his arm this lets him know that you are interested. Now for some positive body language pose your body right in front of him. So it won’t be hard to touch him. Encourage that eye contact as you talk to him. When that night is over remember to tell him how much fun you had with him.
You have learned all the secrets I know about being thirty and flirty. Thirty and flirty is great if you do it right. If you use your guide you know flirting won’t be the problem you encounter it’s the confidence that won’t let you get disappointed. Practice having those positive qualities’ that will leave you feeling your best with confidence and knowing that you will leave with what you want. Thirty and flirty that’s your best.
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